Don't want to loose/mess these goods things that are beginning to happen in my life but I MUST share... today Rick & I went car hunting for him & found IT! It is not the newest of cars but it is in GREAT condition. (Thank you Craigslist- you have made my life twice this weekend) My Ricky bought a '99 Ford Escort today with only 67,000 miles for less than the asking price of $3,500! Whoo hooo to no more sharing a car. And my favorite part of all is that his *new car is a long lost twin to my little red that got totaled in my driveway last fall. (so we're pretty happy)
&&& then ALSO today I found a place. It's super nice. And yeah - it's not the apartment that I found before with all of the fun stuff but this apartment is located less than a mile from my job & close to ALOT of other great things! (like Rick's house) So, now that my bedroom has been packed and ready to move for over a month I hopefully will be moving next weekend!
Oh, and yes I am starting the job at the orthodontist office on Monday. And I am not nervous but instead very, very happy & excited to begin a new chapter in my life, living on my own. (for now). ;)
xoxo, erica
Saturday, May 30, 2009
Dear Friends & Family:
[I am writing this on May 25, & posting it on May 27]
May 26, 2009
Dear Friends & Family:
Due to financial situations, the wedding of Erica Sanders to Richard Meyer will not take place on August 22, 2009 as originally planned. We have made the mutual decision to not get married right now; we would like to extend our engagement before entering into the sacred union of marriage as one.
Genuinely,
Rick & Erica
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A copy of this letter went out to our entire wedding guest list on the morning of May 26. I am having a really, really hard time with all of this because it isn't completely financial reasons at all - it is that Rick has decided he is not ready to get married right now & that he would like to postpone things until he feels that our relationship is where it needs to be. Like I said, I am having the hardest time knowing how to cope or get grips of this whole ordeal - but I know that God works in mysterious ways & I know that there is a reason for everything.
My grandpa told me today [May 25] when I drove out to his property to get a little country fresh air that, "it is better to learn these things now, then after 30 years of marriage like he did" (he & my grandma divorced in 97). I replied to him by saying, "thanks grandpa but those aren't the most comforting words." Aside from that I never thought my grandpa would say anything to me at all about the whole situation... I suppose I never just show up at his house like I did today - but I didn't know where to go - yet knew I needed to go somewhere. And there is 30+ acres of land out there and it is so peaceful... and that is what I need is peace. When I first got there my grandpa asked where Rick was & why he wasn't with me & I told him Rick was at my house & that I was running away to get away from him & that he makes me crazy. My grandpa laughed, smiled & told me he understood and offered me a coke. I'm not saying my grandpa isn't a caring man - but seeing him today, and talking to him made me look at him differently. I love my grandpa.
Like I said above - I'm feeling stuck. Like I want to leap out and scream (oh, God - oh, God Lordy we know I've done that) And above all of this I am angry. I'm not sure who I am more angry with though. Myself. Or Rick. I just know that I am very upset, emotional, angry - I don't want to talk & sometimes I just want to say everything that is on my mind. Both of which I know isn't a good idea. I know that I need to turn towards God in this situation but to tell you the honest truth I'm a little mad at God, I'm disappointed. I suppose that is why we should not live with expectations... because if you go into a situation with an expectation you're bound to be disappointed.
I feel like some of the characters in the books I've read... beginning a new day, a new chapter in my life. If only I were the author. I know that the author of my life, has a plan for my life - even if it isn't exactly what I had in mind. But I suppose that is the best part... we are only in control to make decisions from the situations that He puts in our life - He knows what we're going to choose before we even make a decision for ourselves. He is not a co-pilot - He is fully in-charge and I need to step back and let Him take charge.
May 26, 2009
Dear Friends & Family:
Due to financial situations, the wedding of Erica Sanders to Richard Meyer will not take place on August 22, 2009 as originally planned. We have made the mutual decision to not get married right now; we would like to extend our engagement before entering into the sacred union of marriage as one.
Genuinely,
Rick & Erica
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A copy of this letter went out to our entire wedding guest list on the morning of May 26. I am having a really, really hard time with all of this because it isn't completely financial reasons at all - it is that Rick has decided he is not ready to get married right now & that he would like to postpone things until he feels that our relationship is where it needs to be. Like I said, I am having the hardest time knowing how to cope or get grips of this whole ordeal - but I know that God works in mysterious ways & I know that there is a reason for everything.
My grandpa told me today [May 25] when I drove out to his property to get a little country fresh air that, "it is better to learn these things now, then after 30 years of marriage like he did" (he & my grandma divorced in 97). I replied to him by saying, "thanks grandpa but those aren't the most comforting words." Aside from that I never thought my grandpa would say anything to me at all about the whole situation... I suppose I never just show up at his house like I did today - but I didn't know where to go - yet knew I needed to go somewhere. And there is 30+ acres of land out there and it is so peaceful... and that is what I need is peace. When I first got there my grandpa asked where Rick was & why he wasn't with me & I told him Rick was at my house & that I was running away to get away from him & that he makes me crazy. My grandpa laughed, smiled & told me he understood and offered me a coke. I'm not saying my grandpa isn't a caring man - but seeing him today, and talking to him made me look at him differently. I love my grandpa.
Like I said above - I'm feeling stuck. Like I want to leap out and scream (oh, God - oh, God Lordy we know I've done that) And above all of this I am angry. I'm not sure who I am more angry with though. Myself. Or Rick. I just know that I am very upset, emotional, angry - I don't want to talk & sometimes I just want to say everything that is on my mind. Both of which I know isn't a good idea. I know that I need to turn towards God in this situation but to tell you the honest truth I'm a little mad at God, I'm disappointed. I suppose that is why we should not live with expectations... because if you go into a situation with an expectation you're bound to be disappointed.
I feel like some of the characters in the books I've read... beginning a new day, a new chapter in my life. If only I were the author. I know that the author of my life, has a plan for my life - even if it isn't exactly what I had in mind. But I suppose that is the best part... we are only in control to make decisions from the situations that He puts in our life - He knows what we're going to choose before we even make a decision for ourselves. He is not a co-pilot - He is fully in-charge and I need to step back and let Him take charge.
Thursday, May 21, 2009
Party - Bachlorette - Party
Tuesday, May 19
Breanne. (Rick's sister)
LeighAnn. (Rick's twin brothers fiance')
& Me.
Tuesday, May 19- Wednesday, May 20
One of the best evenings I have EVER had with the girls - and who would have ever known it was a Tuesday evening/ Wednesday morning. ;)
LeighAnn's Bachlorette Party dinner
Breanne. (Rick's sister)
LeighAnn. (Rick's twin brothers fiance')
& Me.
Tuesday, May 19- Wednesday, May 20
"Random" Tuesday evening party @ Brianna's
One of the best evenings I have EVER had with the girls - and who would have ever known it was a Tuesday evening/ Wednesday morning. ;)
Tuesday, May 19, 2009
Brandon & Jami
Congratulations to the newly married couple Brandon & Jami!
On Saturday, May 16, I arrived home at 2:30am & didn't get to bed until shortly after 4am & Rick arrived at my home & woke me up around 10:30am. We layed around that morning ate brunch and eventually began our day together around 1 or may it was 2. Well that evening Rick's cousin Brandon was getting married to his lovely bride (now wifey) in Lansing, Mich. Needless to say I drove home Friday so I could attend this lovely couples reception as Rick's date. Here are a few pics from the wedding.
some of the "family"
Rick. Me. Kevin. ------------- Me. Bre.
Me & Rick at the end of a long evening.
Monday, May 18, 2009
MY VACATION
My vacations began May 10 & ended May 16
pics of my Ry guy
Vacation #1 was Tybee Island, GA to visit my mom
&
Vacation #2 was Myrtle Beach, SC where my "sister" Stephanie, some of her friends and our "parents" went vacationing.
May 10: I spent the ENTIRE day driving.
I left my house at about 10:30am
I listened to silence & then an entire book on CD Mistaken Identity by Van Ryn, Cerak, Tabb
I never once got too tired to drive, which I suppose is a good thing because I had no one else to take the wheel. It was just me, myself & I.
May 11: I arrived on Tybee Island at about 12:30am
It was clearly pitch dark & the scariest part was not knowing where to go & looking at my GPS showing nothing but the road I am on and water on both sides on me with no sign on land but what is in front of me and behind me. SCARY. I got to what I thought was my moms house and called her and her husband phones. No answer. What? I was soooo angry. I had driven xxxx hours and their not answering their phones. For about a 1/2 hour I called & called... & FINALLY my mom answered. She felt SO bad. (And dang it she should.) Anyways she met me outside and helped me carry in my bags. I said hi to her husband James who was in bed and had no idea I was there or that I called both of their phones a billion times. Eventually he got up out of bed and we all three sat in the living room and talked about my long journey {alone}. & then we went out to the beach... it was unfortunate that it was evening, and so, so dark - I seriously couldn't see a thing! But just smelling the ocean, feeling the warm weather & the sand between my toes was good enough. :)
May 12: My mom and James (her husband) both had to work - but to my luck I had a whole beach & pool to enjoy. I went out that morning sometime around 10am and stayed out until about 2pm --- I knew it was really hot outside and the sun was really getting to me. Especially because I was so used to Michigan 60 degree weather, not sunny enough to wear shorts, or tanks tops but here I was on Tybee Island walking around in nothing but a bathing suit & flip flops. I went inside for lunch and shortly thereafter my mom came home. I told her I felt a little sick & i was having a hard time breathing. Must of been because it was 90 degrees outside with 70 or 80 something humidity (saw that fact of info on the news) YIKES! No wonder why I was sweating, hot & felt a little sick.
May 13: My mom took today off to spend some time with me before I left Tybee to go on my 2nd vacation to Myrtle Beach. Today, however it was not as nice as it was the day before. Today I wore jean carpi's & a fleece. My mom, her friend, and her friends son fed some turtles --- they we're so big & cute. We then went for a walk on beach. While walking I found a starfish... that wasn't quite a star because it was broke & I was excited I had found it however when I attempted to pick it up it felt sooo weird, so my moms friends son (Devon) is holding it. We walked on the beach of the river that runs into the ocean... or the ocean runs into the river. Whichever it be it was amazing. While walking I found a starfish... that wasn't quite a star because it was broke & I was excited I had found it however when I attempted to pick it up it felt sooo weird, so my moms friends son (Devon) is holding it. I have a pretty neat pic of the beach where this happens and the waves & current where the two clash is sooo strong that you cannot swim there and if you tried you drown. Have you ever heard of JETTIES? I never had. Their pretty neat. And BEAUTIFUL.
May 14 & 15: I left my moms this afternoon for Myrtle Beach & when I got in the car I realized that i really didn't feel like driving to Myrtle Beach let alone home later on that week. 4 1/2 hours later I arrived at Myrtle Beach - Ocean Blvd. It was cold... blah & NO sun. :( The whole gang ate out that evening at a something famous burger place. So it was only appropriate to order a burger... and I did & it was super spicy & afterwards I had horrible heart burn. But it was good. The younger crowd went to DICKS -- which was okay. Super expensive, the food was a little less than average and I really wanted Catfish & they didn't have anymore. I think I spent $20 on myself for a piece of chicken, fries, coleslaw & a Mike's Hard Lemonade. I went shopping one evening with Michelle for shirts & a shot glass. The morning I left to drive home I went for a walk on the beach alone... it felt like it wanted to rain - but I prayed to God that it wouldn't so that I could spend one last minute on the beach gathering shells and gathering my thoughts. The rain drops were so soft it almost felt like a mist off the ocean & it last only a few moments. I prayed I see a shark or dolphins or a whale. But I didn't... so I think maybe/ hopefully next time? Ryan met me on the beach. He was sooo bummed that I went out without him - but no worries Craig brought him out to fly the kite.. and Ryan had no interest. Well, enough interest in the kite to hold it for a little less than a minute and let it go... you should have seen how fast Craig ran & Ryan's face was absolutely priceless. To live my life as a 3 1/2 year old again would be amazing --- some of the things he says and does amazes me. I left Myrtle Beach at noon on Friday & as soon as I got off the exit to drive a little less than 7 miles to my house it began POURING rain.. the only bad driving rain the whole trip. I arrived at my house on Saturday morning at 2:30am --- I brought in all of my things from my car & did laundry. Haha I know, laundry at 2:30 in the morning. Yes, that is my life - that is what I do. I'm not going to lie - I really did miss my kitty Maxey but goodness he wanted me to stay up all night with him and he slept right on top of me.. I suppose that means he really missed me too?
Driving to Tybee Island
One of the many turtles we fed
The Starfish I found - but wouldn't hold (this is Devon)
Where the river runs into the Ocean or the Ocean runs into the river. & the sand blows swiftly across the beach.
Me & my mom
These are Jetties
Tybee Island Lighthouse
More Jetties (& when the waves hit like so it is sooo beautiful)
Me. Stephanie. Matt. Krista & Michelle @ Dicks
Me & Michelle shopping
pics of my Ry guyMonday, May 11, 2009
Vacation Life Day #1
Day #1 TYBEE ISLAND
The morning began with (obviously) arriving here at 12:30am.
Waking my mom (Jackie) out of a deep sleep & yelling at her because I was on the island outside her condo building for a 1/2 hour. She helped me carry my (proud to say "only") 3 small bags into her condo. She showed me my room & we talked for awhile & then yes at 1am decided to go outside to the ocean - so amazing even if it were dark & you could hardly see anything. I was just glad that it was/is warm outside. Well, we went to bed at like 3:30am & began today (well I began the day at about 10:30am - not a whole lot of sleep but I did sleep well, real well.
Today it was 90 degrees out with 88 humanity --- does not even compare to Michigan weather the past few weeks. I spent all morning and afternoon at the pool & the beach & let me tell you that my arms are a little red & my cheeks. All I can say is the warm weather beats the hell out of Michigan even if it is (now) raining... well storming.
I'm really looking forward to tonight because we are going to a "real" seafood restaurant with fresh fish right from the ocean. Cannot wait!
Oh yea, & the news is on... it's now 72 degrees (thanks rain)
& aside from that on the beach today... I found to 1/2 sand dollars (they don't fit together to make a whole though) & a really neat full snail shell.
I'll write more tomorrow & let you know how dinner tasted & all that good stuff.
♥Erica
:::thanks for reading:::
p.s. I love orange today.
The morning began with (obviously) arriving here at 12:30am.
Waking my mom (Jackie) out of a deep sleep & yelling at her because I was on the island outside her condo building for a 1/2 hour. She helped me carry my (proud to say "only") 3 small bags into her condo. She showed me my room & we talked for awhile & then yes at 1am decided to go outside to the ocean - so amazing even if it were dark & you could hardly see anything. I was just glad that it was/is warm outside. Well, we went to bed at like 3:30am & began today (well I began the day at about 10:30am - not a whole lot of sleep but I did sleep well, real well.
Today it was 90 degrees out with 88 humanity --- does not even compare to Michigan weather the past few weeks. I spent all morning and afternoon at the pool & the beach & let me tell you that my arms are a little red & my cheeks. All I can say is the warm weather beats the hell out of Michigan even if it is (now) raining... well storming.
I'm really looking forward to tonight because we are going to a "real" seafood restaurant with fresh fish right from the ocean. Cannot wait!
Oh yea, & the news is on... it's now 72 degrees (thanks rain)
& aside from that on the beach today... I found to 1/2 sand dollars (they don't fit together to make a whole though) & a really neat full snail shell.
I'll write more tomorrow & let you know how dinner tasted & all that good stuff.
♥Erica
:::thanks for reading:::
p.s. I love orange today.
Run Away Bride
So I may not be a bride YET - but I have "run away".
While I'm sitting and waiting in between jobs I made a decision to go on a trip.
ALL BY MYSELF.
It did help that everyone in my household were leaving to go to on vacation to Myrtle Beach... I decided to make the trip along with them - however I decided to drive all by myself first to my moms in Georgia :::Tybee Island::: & then later this week I will be heading to Myrtle Beach with the rest of my family.
::: I left Michigan 5/10 @10am
&
arrived in Tybee 5/11 @12:30am :::
And it was a lot of driving all by myself!
(I'll post photos next week when I get home)
;) :)
♥♥♥
While I'm sitting and waiting in between jobs I made a decision to go on a trip.
ALL BY MYSELF.
It did help that everyone in my household were leaving to go to on vacation to Myrtle Beach... I decided to make the trip along with them - however I decided to drive all by myself first to my moms in Georgia :::Tybee Island::: & then later this week I will be heading to Myrtle Beach with the rest of my family.
::: I left Michigan 5/10 @10am
&
arrived in Tybee 5/11 @12:30am :::
And it was a lot of driving all by myself!
(I'll post photos next week when I get home)
;) :)
♥♥♥
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